Update test_incremental_microbatch to use behavior flag instead of environment variable

[QMalcolm]

resolves #1359

Problem

dbt-adapters + dbt-core are moving to a behavior flag for gating microbatch functionality. We need to update the tests in dbt-bigquery to reflet this.

Solution

Updated the effected tests to use the new behavior flag defined by dbt-adapters in dbt-labs/dbt-adapters#323

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[QMalcolm]

Closing, because we're gonna do this differently and these commits would make that messy