update to ubuntu 24.04 and suggest mariadb

[shyim]

With Ubuntu 24.04 we don't need a PPA, as PHP is provided with the latest version

Also replaced MySQL 8 with MariaDB as it's more common

[svenja11]

Thank you for the update @shyim!

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